July 20, 2017

Could This be Why Love is Eluding You?

Could this be why love is eluding you?

‍Let me ask you a question: What do you really, reallyreally want?

And now you have answered it, tell me: Do you really believe you can get it?

If we are talking about Finding Love here, your answers to these questions could be the very things that are holding you back from finding ‘The One’…

More often than not, your success in life - in any area - depends on recognizing your full potential; your personal power. It is in discovering and understanding your true worth that you find the power to be successful.

You need to understand that no one else can create your life for you. No one else has that power! It is down to you: your belief in yourself and in your absolute certainty that you are fabulous and that you’ll get what you desire and deserve.

As The Law of Attraction states: Our energy flows where our attention goes.

What are your thoughts surrounding love? Do you feel as though it’s impossible? That it happens for other people but it won’t happen for you? That there must be something wrong with you?

If this sounds like you, you need to know that is BS. Why won’t it happen for you? Why must there be something wrong with you? You are perfect! Of course it will happen – but you need to believe. If your attention is focused on the negatives, on the ‘it won’t happen for me’ and the gang, then that’s what you create. You are focusing your energy in the wrong direction. It hasn’t happened for you YET, and for good reason (which will become apparent to you as your life unfolds beautifully and perfectly before your very eyes…)

You have to really believe that you are going to find your ideal partner, so get it in your subconscious. Try to create a vivid picture in your head of what your life will look like when you are in your dream relationship: You are more likely to behave in the direction of the goal if you have the visual in your subconscious. Every day, tell yourself you have the best relationship, one in which you are joyful and content. Speak as if it has already happened – you are already living your perfect life. As Napoleon Hill said: “If you can think it, you can achieve it.”

Becoming aware of, and breaking down the barriers you have and the beliefs you hold about yourself that are preventing you from fully believing that you will find lasting love, will pave the way to opening yourself up to all the possibilities that lie ahead. I can help you with that. I can help you with creating the life you want and becoming the best version of yourself. I can help you find lasting love. I believe in you!

Why wait?

‘If you do what you have always done; you will get what you’ve always got’ (Henry Ford)

Today is your day to start doing things differently...

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Rachael Blackmore

Rachael Blackmore is a qualified counsellor and relationship therapist. She focuses on helping you explore yourself and your patterns of behavior in order to find successful, committed relationship with a partner who deserves you! She provides support for men and women searching for The One and wondering why they haven't found them yet.

Rachael believes in the power of relationship: she will build a relationship with you where trust and acceptance facilitate open communication about the things that are troubling you. She is  passionate about her work and committed to helping you explore your difficult feelings and experiences to find a way to feel better and experience life differently. With a Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling, Rachael works as an integrative  therapist. This means she draws on the Person-Centred approach and  Psychodynamic theory to work collaboratively with you to improve your mental  and emotional well-being.

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